Finding Peace in Transition

Fall is my favorite season. The cooler weather, school supplies, football weekends are all welcome, but it can also be challenging.

Our family pace picks up with new responsibilities and activities, and even with a predictable routine, the routine can be more rigorous than we want.

We are also trying to do some moderate updates to our house to keep it fresh. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activity and responsibility and let anxiety and worry reign supreme.

Here are 5 simple ways I reduce my anxiety to find peace during transition:

  • Set goals: I find this helpful especially with home renovation, but also exercise, and drinking water, and cleaning the house. When those tasks are broken into manageable chunks, I get less overwhelmed.
  • Prayer: My prayers are often simple, but they are essential to my well-being. In the morning, I remind myself I have been refreshed (Lamentations 3). I ask for focus on the present (Matthew 6). In the evening, I especially try to reflect on the blessings in the unexpected places (Philippians 4).
  • Serve: These are small but practical efforts, and they don’t change the world, but they change my world. (Micah 6:8) What can I do to show Christ in me today? What could I do for my husband today to reduce his stress? What could I do for myself today that would make tomorrow easier?
  • Be creative: We all need a way to release some mental and physical energy. I like to read, jog and knit. My husband likes to do woodworking projects. My daughters blast music and dance. You do you!
  • Young Living Essential Oils: I add Orange or Lemon to my water. I add Peppermint on a cotton ball in the car. (This also helps me reduce over-caffeinating to wake up). Peace & Calming is diffused after school and into the evening. And a Stress Away roller is easy to use before prayer in the evening.

Ultimately, my faith in God is my source of peace, so I included my guiding scripture, if that is something that also interests you.

What works for you? How do you find peace?

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Summer Reading

I’m working towards my goal of 100 books, but not sure if I will make it without a significant portion of the second half of the year being middle grade and young adult. Which really isn’t a problem considering I’m always on the lookout for books to recommend to my girls, and fishing in the pond of Newberry award winners and National Book Award winners is an excellent place to begin. Especially for my oldest, as she gets assigned “her choice” novel studies now. It makes it easier to study a novel that’s a little deeper than Dork Diaries…

 

I’ve kept meaning to write a reading post when June ended, then July, so my apologies that the list is so long. Here’s May to August!

 

Orange is the New Black by Piper Kerman (audio)

Not that I’ve ever done anything quite dangerous enough to land me in prison, but I connected with Piper and reading her experience made me wonder exactly how I would react. Prison through Piper’s eyes was both more and less frightening than I imagined.

 

Far from the Tree by Robin Benway

Oh, this story of 3 adopted teens truly touched my heart. Family can take so many forms and following these teens on their journey to find their own meaning of family is just excellent. Best book I’ve read all year.

 

One of Us is Lying by Karen McManus (audio)

A notorious cyberbully gets mysteriously poisoned in study hall, and the story develops around the people that shared the room just before his death. Are they co-conspirators/victims/murderers? I loved this one, and truly could not guess the ending.

 

Force of Nature by Jane Harper

This was creepy and great… once you get past the idea that none of these women wanted to go or were prepared to go on this hike through the Australian bush that left one member missing, but they all went anyway. So a little unbelieveable, but fun regardless.

 

Priestdaddy by Patricia Lockwood

Hilarious from start to finish. Every family has their quirks but hers is truly original and she writes with such hilarity that you will laugh out loud. I promise.

 

House Among the Trees by Julia Glass (audio)

Oh, I’m not sure if it was just me and I was really distracted, but this was sooooooo boring. I tried both the audio and the library copy and never could finish this one.  It developed so slowly for me, and I wondered it if was going to go in the direction of child abuse, so I just stopped reading. Life is too short for boring books (and books that make you mad-sad).

 

Someone Like You by Sarah Dessen

This story of a friendship between two teen girls Halley and Scarlett showcases complicated parent/child relationships perfectly. I would have loved to have read this in high school, but can appreciate the perspective I have far from it as well.

 

The Girls in the Garden by Lisa Jewell

Creepy to the max, even after the ending. I can’t spoil it because I can’t explain it. I talked to this book- Don’t go out there!! Don’t talk to XXX!! Why did you do that!! Just read it!

 

The Alice Network by Kate Quinn

This one has two wartime storylines- 1914 and 1947, and the former is more compelling than the latter. It follows Charley in 1947 on a search for more information about a family member, and I just felt Charley was a bit one dimensional. It wasn’t my favorite war story,  I would recommend The Nightingale or Sarah’s Key or Code Name Verity before picking this one.

 

We are Okay by Nina LaCour (audio)

This was also slow and just okay. The grief that centers the storyline is so amplified that I wanted out of this girl’s brain. Maybe that’s the point? I certainly felt trapped.

 

Our Little Secret by Roz Nay

This was very quick and tricky and exceedingly dark. This little story of a first love gone wrong surprised me. I didn’t guess the ending on this one either.

 

Manhattan Beach by Jennifer Egan

So, I couldn’t finish this library copy before I had to return it, but I really wanted to. I had to return because there were others waiting on it. But I’m back on the holds list and promise to finish before the year is out.

 

Born to Run by Bruce Springsteen (audio)

I like Bruce’s voice (and music) but didn’t really fall in love with this. I don’t understand enough about making music to follow it or be interested in the intricacies, and wanted to hear more “behind the music” relationship/inspiration details than what was offered. I didn’t finish it. I probably just should have forwarded on to a point in the book where I had a little personal context, but didn’t make the effort.

 

Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng

I loved this and would recommend to anyone. On the surface, this community is certainly strange, but as she dives into each character you swirl around into a web that is so fascinating and wonderful. The only thing I did not fully understand is why it was relevant to mention it was the 90’s?

 

One Second After by William Forstchen

This was recommended by a friend when we were talking about post-apocalyptic-type books that we’ve read (I mentioned Station Eleven, one of my favorite books ever). I am familiar with Black Mountain, and the Montreat College area, so this felt especially fun and interesting to explore. I can see why the author chose that area, and I’d like to be there as well if this type of attack happened. I didn’t fully understand the mechanics behind the attack, but it was very interesting nonetheless.

 

Moon over Manifest by Clare Vanderpool (audio)

This is the next book I’m buying for my oldest. I loved this little story of Abilene, digging into the mystery of connecting the town’s past with why she was abandoned with an old friend of her father’s, in a town called Manifest. Historical detail is amazing and once you are in the story, it’s hard to put down. Mystery, history, redemption, diversity, all excellent themes to explore in this one.

 

Then She Was Gone by Lisa Jewell

Another fast paced, thriller from Lisa Jewell. It’s official, I’m a big fan. This had its share of creepy characters and unsolvable mysteries. And I kinda loved the ending, even if it wasn’t what I expected (or turns out, what the author originally decided it would be).

 

A Single Shard by Linda Sue Park

I found this on the Newberry list and although this was a lovely book, it felt more like a book that would be assigned to read versus one that I would be interested in reading.

 

The Death of Mrs. Westaway by Ruth Ware

I felt this was so predictable until the twist at the end. I have liked Ruth Ware’s books, Woman in Cabin 10 especially, and this was a fun and quick read. I didn’t feel like Hal’s childhood and more recent past was developed enough, but I’m not sure if it could be without giving away the ending.

 

A Year Down Yonder by Richard Peck

Again, good but not exciting or worthy to pass on as a recommendation for middle grade.

 

That’s it for now. September stack pictured above (all non-library, most borrowed from my mom and sister). Anything you’d recommend?

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Busy Bees, or Bunnies?

July has passed in a total blur. With camps, holidays at the lake, and family vacations, the month is ending and I have very little to show for it except for this cute baby hat and some fast fading tan lines.

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The pattern is Bunny Tail by Susan B Anderson, from the book Itty-Bitty Hats. The yarn was Quince Chickadee. The little booties I just made up as I went, on a bored day without internet at the lake.

We hosted a baby shower for my cousin and her sweet girl and my other cousin that moved all the way across the world to Utah (well, anyway it feels like it’s all the way across the world) came and brought with her my newest cousin, sweet Abraham. Made my summer I tell you! (And no, his blanket is not finished. But as you can see, he has forgiveness in spades.)

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Abraham and I were fast friends. I hope your summer has also been as peaceful and perfect as this little chunk of miracle.

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Exploring Greeneville, TN

Last weekend, we jumped at the chance to explore Greeneville, TN with our friends. Here’s a quick guide…

Eat:

Don’t miss Pal’s frenchie fries and peachy tea. (Eat at the only Pal’s with indoor seating at Greeneville Commons too!)

Pelican’s Snoballs on Tusculum Blvd is an excellent treat on a scorching summer day!

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Visit:

Andrew Johnson Historic Site is located in downtown Greeneville and was well done! Park Rangers host free tours where you can learn not just about Johnson’s home, life and politics, but also local Civil War history. The kids took advantage of the Junior Ranger program and had a blast.

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Davy Crockett’s birthplace in Limestone, TN is about 20 minutes outside Greeneville. It was also interesting, maybe just a little less so than AJ’s house. It was hot and humid, so the animals (chickens, pigs, and ponies) on the homestead were quite fragrant, but the park rangers on the site hosted a corn silk doll craft that saved the day.

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Early Sunday morning, we hiked Margarette Falls. The rocks on the trail were slippery and the elevation change was challenging for me but not for anyone else! I can be a bit of a safety patrol, but the others put up with my complaining and we finally made it to the top waterfall, about a mile and and half straight up! Overall the moderate hike was scenic from beginning to end and totally worth the effort. The only grumble (aside from mine) was the lack of bathrooms at the trailhead, not even a port-a-john.

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Stay:

We stayed at the Hampton Inn because we knew late Saturday we had some extra time to let the kids swim, so we needed a hotel with a pool. But if I didn’t have kids with me, the General Morgan Inn would have been my top choice. Built in the 1880s and renovated around 1996, the hotel is the perfect place to stay for a historical getaway.

Happy travels to you!

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We Did It!- Giant Wall Hanging!

My daughter and I finished her wall hanging!

She picked shades of blue and aqua from the bulky yarn section of Joanns, and it took about a hour or two last Saturday to pull it all together.

We used these instructions from A Beautiful Mess, and the most complicated part was the wire and hanging the piece. Altogether about $50, but we have a lot of yarn leftover, so we could have economized a bit better.

Happy Crafty Monday to you!

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Birthday Revelations

  1. I might not be a “yes” parent, but I am a strong “maybe.” Being open and embracing new phases helps me see my children as individuals. Perfection is hard to relate to. I pick realistic role models and that’s also the kind of mother and friend I want to be.
  2. I love a good plan and a list of tasks. It soothes me to write it out, even if I lose or abandon it.
  3. Exercising feels good. When I trained for the half marathon, I got to a place where running quieted my mind. I am back to being out of breath, so I would like to get to that place again.
  4. Keeping a gratitude list is an awesome way to keep my mind focused on positivity. Sometimes it’s just in my head, sometimes in a journal, but always it gives me peace.
  5. I need a creative outlet. I love knitting, escaping in books, and sketching out plans on how to achieve different goals (and just permission to let my mind wander for an hour works just as well).

Another year, another list (it feels so good to write it out, try it!!!)

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On the needles currently:

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Summer Planning

My kids have 10 weeks of summer. When they aren’t at camps or family vacations, they roughly spend the first half of the day with me, then the second half of the day with my mother. They usually do quiet, crafty activities while I work in the mornings, then she takes them to the pool and other fun places in the afternoon.

During the school year, every family member has chores and routines that keep us all accountable and the household running moderately smooth. I like to have a plan going into each summer week as well. The plan is loose, but it’s enough stability to provide boundaries.

So along with some chores, we go to the library each week and I ask them to write in a journal at least once a week. I also give myself a weekly theme and try to come up with some craft ideas, some book ideas that I reserve at the library in advance, a field trip idea, and throw in some recipes that we want to try. It’s loose, but with a little structure.

Here’s some of the weekly themes we are kicking around: Yarn, Kindness, Jewelry, Painting, Sculpture, Paper, Patriotic, Wildflower, Beach, and Water. My goal this summer is to encourage their creativity (and try not to go insane with the messes that are made).

Do you also purposely change the household pace in the summer?

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